We’re often asked… "Can essential oils really help settle the household when everything feels like it’s spinning out of control?”
At Moon Haven, we’ve watched the transformative power of scent work its gentle magic for decades — in homes bustling with children, in workplaces brimming with deadlines, and in our own cottage store where busy minds walk in and breathe a sigh of relief.
Aromatherapy, when used with intention, can truly bring calm to chaos.
Here’s how:
Essential oils like Lavender, Sweet Orange, and Lemongrass interact with the limbic system – the emotional centre of the brain. Just a few deep breaths of the right blend can:
lower heart rate
reduce cortisol levels (our main stress hormone)
and restore a sense of control
It’s not just ‘woo-woo’ — it’s biology.
Whether it’s toddlers melting down, teens arguing over the remote, or the grown-ups stressing over bills, every household needs a sanctuary space.
Here’s how our Moonies are doing it:
Diffuser in the corner: A calming blend of Lavender or Sweet Orange helps ease the mood and reset the tone of the day.
Bathroom bliss: A few drops of Rose Geranium or Lemongrass Oil on a washcloth during a warm shower turns cleansing into a grounding ritual.
Pillow & linen mist: A spritz of our Dreamy Lavender Room Spray at bedtime tells your nervous system, “It’s time to let go.”
You don’t need fancy gear to enjoy the calming benefits:
A bowl of steaming water + a few drops of Lavender or Lemongrass = instant atmosphere shift
A cotton ball with a drop of essential oil tucked into a pocket or desk drawer
A dab of diluted oil on pulse points (our Relax Pulse Point Potion is perfect for this)
One of our favourites for lifting emotional fog is Lemongrass Essential Oil.
With its bright, citrusy scent, it’s perfect for those moments when you feel overwhelmed and scattered.
Try it when:
You’ve had a tense conversation and want to reset the energy in a room
The household feels “stale” and heavy (a few drops in a DIY surface spray works wonders)
You need a fresh start and a mental uplift without caffeine
Aromatherapy shines when it’s woven into the everyday. It helps transform the mundane into moments of intention and care:
A drop of essential oil in a warm bowl of water while doing dishes
Inhaling your favourite blend before opening your laptop
Breathing deeply while applying moisturiser before bed
These tiny rituals anchor us and give our nervous systems a break — even if it’s just for a few seconds.
In a world that rarely slows down, the simple act of stopping to breathe in calm can be revolutionary.
Whether it’s the soft embrace of Lavender, the crisp clarity of Lemongrass, or the grounding depth of Vetiver — aromatherapy reminds us that peace isn’t out there somewhere… it starts within, right under our nose.
With love & quiet strength,
Laura, Leonie & the Moon Haven Team
This article was written by Moon Haven’s aromatherapist and founder Leonie Gully and as such represents her personal opinion on the given subject.
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Leonie Gully- Moon Haven's Aromatherapist
While any advice provided is general in nature, it is not intended to replace medical diagnosis or treatment. If you are at all concerned about your condition, it is important that you do consult your medical practitioner of choice for an individual consultation and treatment plan.
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